Over the past year I have done a lot of things I said I would never do. A lot of things… I tried to live by the idea “don’t knock it until you try it.” I have opened myself up to many new things, some I liked and some I didn’t. I know that most women have certain things they won’t do in the bedroom. Every girl draws the line somewhere.
When I became sexually active my limits were numerous. In fact, only acceptable forms of sexual activity were vaginal sex and oral, with me as the recipient. I didn’t want to touch or see a penis and I damn sure wasn’t sticking one in my mouth. A few years later, when I was more accustomed to the sight of a penis I decided touching one wasn’t so terrible and I even let a guy talk me into sticking one in my mouth. I still refused to let a guy finish in my mouth but I determined that I rather liked oral sex even when I was on the giving end. I finally got to the point where I was comfortable enough with men and their equipment that I started seeing the job through to completion.
As I got older and more adventurous I decided that I needed to try to be more open. I decided I wanted to try anal sex and I did. The first guy I had anal sex with was not well endowed and I walked away from the experience feeling like it wasn’t that bad. It wasn’t my favorite thing to do but I could do it once in a while. The second man I did it with then ruined it for every other man I would ever sleep with. He was well endowed and didn’t seem to think lube was necessary when trying to cram himself into an orifice that does not lubricate itself. I have been very fortunate in regard to men’s size and there is no way I would let most of the men I have slept with anywhere near my butthole, even with lube.
So at that point the things that were off limits were the obvious… no animals, no body fluids that weren’t normally associated with sex and nothing that involve hooking me up to a piece of electrical equipment. I had done almost everything I said I would never do. What can I say? In the heat of the moment I tend to be very accommodating.
So now when I am talking to my friends about sex and they run off a laundry list of things that one could experience in a sexual encounter, I have typically tried more than most of them. But I still have one hang up. It is the one thing I just don’t like. Most people laugh at me when I tell them because it is really mild by comparison.
Don’t come on my face! I don’t even like the idea of it. That is where I draw the line in the sand.