Coming from a woman who abstained from sex for thirteen years the idea of a dry spell may seem ridiculous. I am going through a dry spell. I haven’t had sex in a little over two weeks and now that seems too long. Before Thanksgiving, I was seeing someone and having sex at least ten times a week. Before that I can’t remember a time since June that I went more than a week without sex.
I spent the bulk of my life either being deprived of or depriving myself of physical affection. When I made the decision to start dating again I realized how much I craved it. It was simple; I just wanted to be touched. Also due to the lack of physical contact I had a strong emotional reaction to physical affection (holding hands, touching, kissing, not just sex.) I struggled in my first few encounters with men because I seemed to be getting prematurely attached. I was still having sex at least once a week.
After a while when I had dated more men I was able to better control my emotions and moved on to the next phase of my search for a relationship. I met a man I wanted to spend more time with and luckily for me he was as horny as I was and I continued to have sex on a regular basis.
Now that we have stopped seeing each other and I am beginning to have what my blogger friend calls “that itch.” I am really not ready to jump back in to dating. I am just not ready. I haven’t quite moved on but I am starting to get horny. I am finding it harder to ignore the itch and the idea of not having had sex for a little more than fourteen days is start to work its way to the forefront of mind.
I love sex and crave physical affection but emotionally I am not ready to deal with all of the moving on stuff. I am a silly horny girl and I need to try at least for now, keep my hormones in check. I don’t want to wind up in a situation where I am just calling someone for sex. I want more than that but in the meantime I may go a little crazy. Dry spells suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!