Seems the theme of last week’s articles and blogs were pretty uniform. It was all big dicks and anal sex. I don’t really have anything to say about anal sex but I am willing to throw my two cents in about the well-endowed. It all started with an article Why I Hate My Giant Dong written by Charles Allen for The Good Men Project.  It was an article in which he documented the mixed blessings of having a massive member.  Within hours of the article’s posting every female magazine on the web had commented.

I give less than a shit how big your dick is.  I just like penises.  I really do.  For a girl who was terrified of male genitalia until she was in her twenties I feel like I really missed out on what could have been some awesome times, had I actually been ready to have sex. 

As a young woman I had no desire to see a man’s penis, not even during sex.  I was all about the penetration.  Get those pants off and put your p in my v.  Needless to say I never performed fellatio. I had no desire to look at any dude’s member.  They were freaky looking and I was truly a prude.  It took considerable coaxing to get me to give a boy a hand job.  Now I have no such reservations.

The size of a man’s penis has no bearing on whether or not I would sleep with him.  Maybe that is because I have never had sex with anyone I thought had a tragically small penis. I am typically attracted to or turned on by what said penis is attached to and I have never not slept with someone I wanted to see naked just because they didn’t live up to my expectation’s in the size department.  If he is larger than most, good for him (and maybe me.) 

I think skill is far more important than size and I don’t remember any given instance where I thought the sex was better just based on a man’s size.  If I am sleeping with someone who is concerning himself with whether or not the experience is pleasurable for me, that is enough.  Don’t be selfish. Act like you give a shit that there is someone else in the room who would like to have an orgasm.  Decent size penis is nice.  A giant, walking, talking prick is not.